The common misconceptions about the act of BDSM is that it is only a sexual engagement with lots of pain and cries by a psychopath person who loves to hear the screams of pain. Surprisingly, BDSM also practices safe sex for the benefits of the people involve in BDSM. People who are used to BDSM are familiar with the written contract that connects the BDSM practitioners to an agreement about the gruesome sexual act. They will tackle the do's and don't as they engage themselves in BDSM as well as the safe word that they will use. The safe word is a word that the people involved in BDSM use to communicate indicating to stop the sexual activity. It may be because of the overly intense pain that the masochist can't handle or because of an act with lack of consent. The safe word is the most important thing that the people who practice BDSM need to know. They both have to remember when it should be used especially for the safety of the masochist involved. The safe word that they will be using can be anything that can break the intense atmosphere in the room. Some BDSM practitioners use sweet pastries such as macaroons as safe words. The sadists will ask whether they want macaroons and if they answer yes, the BDSM session will immediately stop. When the involved participants did not stop even after using the safe word, it will violate the contract and the person who didn't listen to the safe word will need to pay compensation. They will also stop seeing each other and the contract is no longer valid. This is the part that normal people do not know about the BDSM practices. It is one way the BDSM practices are safe, contradicting the popular opinion of the people.
